Ramblings

Just "some" of my thoughts....

Friday, December 29, 2006

Arrows

Only in NYC will there be arrows painted on the steps in subway stations indicating which side of the staircase is for going upstairs and which side is for going downstairs. I thought it was common sense that you always walk to your right, thus, this avoids any head on collisions with people walking in the opposite direction. I would not be surprised if they started implementing this on some sidewalks in NYC especially in Times Square. The east side should be for people traveling north and the west side should be for people traveling south. (I think getting rid of the picture takers in Times Square will also aleve some of the heavy human congestion) I remember when I used to bike in Brooklyn on Ocean Parkway there used to be (and prob still are) bike lanes for specified for the direction the biker was travelling.

Although I love NY some things should be left to common sense. If the saying is true "if you don't use it, you lose it," please let the people of NY use their common sense lest they lose it!

I saw Borat for the third time tonight. It is still funny the third time around! We were supposed to go to a comedy club but when my friend told me he hadnt seen Borat we went hunting to find a theater showing the film. I think its my new mission to have all my friends see Borat.

Tuesday, December 26, 2006

Gerald Ford 1913-2006

"My commitment to the security and future of Israel is based upon basic morality as well as enlightened self-interest. Our role in supporting Israel honors our own heritage." - Gerald Ford

We should be more like the Brits

I don't usually agree with the Brits. But I definitely agree with this. I think the US could save a buck or two if our politicians flew commercial. Kudos to Tony Blair for taking his family on an commercial airline to a vacation destination. The US spends millions shuttling the president to and from various vacation spots. I think this is something the US should implement. I really dont like to see my hard earned cash going to waste. I can see it now, Bush sitting in first class and he has to hear "Ladies and Gentlemen, welcome aboard American Airlines, please remain seated with your seatbelt fastened..." I wonder if the flight attendant will give him peanuts instead of pretzels.

Free Stuff

I just went to an electronics store in Brooklyn owned by a bunch of hasidic Jews to purchase a blow dryer. Believe it or not, they are very reasonably priced. The same product at Bed Bath and Beyond was twenty - five dollars more. When I came to the register to pay, the check out clerk told me that the blow dryer comes with a free curling iron. I told him that if I am blow drying my hair that means I want it straight, furthermore, I don't need a curling iron. He said, but its free. I said I dont need one and I already have one at home in FL. He was so adamant, he said just take it and then began to tell everyone in the store how I was refusing a free item. I even told the guy I was going to sell it on Ebay. I basically had to beg him to allow me just to pay and leave. At the exit, there is a man who checks your bag and receipt told me that it says I purchased two items and there is only one item in the bag. I told him the second item was a free curling iron which I didn't need. He said, but it's free and then began to tell the guy next to him - she isnt taking the free stuff. I said I dont need it. This story solidified the age old Jewish steroetype of Jews and free stuff. In my own little way I am trying to break that stereotype. If I dont need something, I dont want it even if its free! I am not a horder. I like having as little "stuff" as possible. I get rid of stuff I havent used in three months. Why do I need a second curling iron - I rarely use the one I have. I think I could have given them free bird poop, afterall, it is free!

On my way home a little boy of about 6 or 7 asked me to cross the street with him. He was so sweet. It reminded me of when I lived in Israel and all these little kids would always ask me to cross them. (efshar l'avor li et hakvish?) Oh, how I love the innocent trust young kids have in adults. It also makes me feel terribly old :(

Thursday, December 21, 2006

Now I know what I sound like

Today I was running some errands in downtown Brooklyn when I stopped for lunch. There were a few people in front of me on line and listening to them for about five seconds I knew they were law students with out them even mentioning it. It seems like all law students everywhere talk about the same thing. How poor we are going to be when we finish, whose parents pay their way, how much loan money each person is taking out, what kinds of loans, what kinds of scholarships? I could have closed my eyes and it could have been me talking with my friends, it was so weird. I was kind of getting annoyed with them. Then I thought of all the times my friends and I are out and all we talk about is what a financial burden law school is. Furthermore, I realized that my friends and I are so consumed with law school that its all we talk about. It's like we cant even have normal conversations anymore. These students in the restaurant were probably on their vacation and all they were talking about was school; how pathetic! So, I have made a new resolution for the coming year after listening to these law students. No more talking about law school in public. It's time to join the rest of civilization and have normal conversations about life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness ;)

Tuesday, December 19, 2006

Ultra Orthodox Jews and Mullahs

A few days ago I watched a program on the Discovery Times channel called Execution in Iran. It told the story about 16 year old Attefah Rejabi, a young girl, hung in the town square in her home town of Nekah from a crane in 2004 for crimes against chastity. Her “crime” was that she was raped by a 52 year old married taxi driver who was a member of the “morality police.” In Iran if a girl is raped it means that she wasn’t dressed appropriately or that she had a little hair showing or that she was doing something that tempted the man and thus she deserved the rape. The men usually get off (no pun intended) since it was the girl who “forced” him to rape her. Several years ago human rights groups put pressure on the Iranian government not to execute minors when they are charged with any crime against morality. Attefah was arrested three times since she fourteen years old for this “crime” (arrested for being raped). On the fourth time she was arrested by the morality police brought before a judge who determined that she was a dangerous threat to Iran and he sentenced her to death by hanging. One of the discrepancies in Attefah’s case is that her trial and the appeals process all took place within a matter of days, a process that usually takes several months. The appellate court papers reflected Attefah’s age as being twenty – two when in reality she was sixteen. This mistake was brought before the judge; he ruled that she was twenty – two. After Attefah’s death, her father brought the judge her birth certificate and her death certificate to prove to him that Attefeh was only sixteen. The next day Attefah’s corpse was removed from the grave and was never returned. Attefah’s story has been a great source of contention amongst legal scholars in Iran and human rights groups around the world. The town of Nekah was forbidden from talking to anyone in the media about Attefah. Atafeh’s story is not unique in Iran. This documentary seemed eerily familiar to what goes on in some ultra – orthodox communities.

I remember when I lived in Israel there was something called the Vaad Hatzniut also known as the “modesty police.” These “police” go to teenage hotspots and spy on young girls and boys who may be “hanging out” or rat out girls who may not be dressed according to the strict religious customs of the long skirts, the big baggy shirts (lest she have a shape!) and thick tights. The “police” then report back either to the parents or to the school on what they had observed the young person doing. Usually this results in the expulsion of the child from school or harsh punishments rendered by the parents. My friend told me that a girl in her class was once called into the principal’s office and a man who looked like a typical secular Israeli was sitting in the office. He told the principal, I saw her at this place on that night and the next night she was there with so and so, etc. Of course the girl was punished. The school couldn’t send out their own people to spy on their students because they would stick out like sore thumbs, so they hire secular Israelis to do the spying for them. (I think this girl who was called into the principal’s office was from a well-known family, if I recall correctly she got pregnant when she was sixteen, she disappeared for a few months and when she returned there was no baby and no pregnancy. I think today she is divorced with a child and is heavily addicted to heroin or cocaine, I am unsure of the drug – so much good the spying did for her).

“Modesty” is of the utmost importance in these communities. The women wear thick tights even in the hot summer months. The skirts have to flow way past the knee (but not to the ankle – that is too trendy) and the shirts must be at least two sizes too big. Furthermore, if a woman is dressed “inappropriately” (not according to their strict standards) they are usually verbally harassed and in some cases even physically harassed with bleach thrown on their clothes. In these communities men and women never ever have any physical contact until the night of the wedding. Some city busses in Jerusalem are separate, one for men and one for women. Lest the men be tempted. For a community who stresses so much modesty one would imagine that since they strive to be pure on the outside this would be reflective in their character. This is not so. I just read this about a fifty year old woman who was attacked on a bus on the way to the Western Wall because she wouldn’t move to the back of the bus. After reading that and after reading about the despicable Neturei Karta taking part in the holocaust conference in Iran last week it makes me wonder if ideologically, there are any differences between the two groups. In reality there are only slight diffences in a tactical sense. The ultra Orthodox do not use suicide bombers to promote their ideology.

It seems that these ultra orthodox fanatics will not be content unless Israel is a theocracy and all of Israel abides by their strict laws and customs. This almost mirrors the theocracy in Iran. Iran seeks to dominate the world one day and in turn impose sharia law on the civilized people of the Earth. In both of these groups the means, no matter how deplorable they may be, justify the ends – a world dominated by religious law. It makes me think that there are not too many differences between religious fanatics, whatever religion they may be. Extremes in any spectrum are dangerous, be it political or religious. I find it hard to believe that wearing a longer skirt or thicker tights made anyone a better person. If a person does not have strong moral character, their long skirts or long beards will not give them character; as we see from the fanatics in Iran who execute a sixteen year old rape victim or the haredi nut jobs who beat a fifty year old women on a city bus. In this day and age our society needs people of strong moral character and moral clarity. Enough wars have been fought based on religious fanaticism and it has gotten us, in essence, nowhere.

Sunday, December 10, 2006

Exams are OVER!!!!

I am finally done with the hardest exams I have ever taken. I cant guarantee I passed and I may have just even failed out of law school.... I am not thinking about that right now. Off to get a massage... clean my car.. do about 18 loads of laundry and then I am OFF TO NYC... the greatest city in the world!!!